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28 June 2014 @ 10:42 pm
About yours truly - friending policy post; sticky  
Well, I had been wanting to do one of these for a while, let's go for it.


friending policy >> This is a mostly public journal, though it does have some FO posts.

If you’d like to friend me, go right ahead! If you'd like me to friend you back, though, please drop me a comment in this post or send me a PM? I just like to know who's reading my personal entries and I usually don't friend back automatically if I don't know you from some place. I don't bite and I'll most likely friend back. This is also for the bunch of people whom I haven't friended back. Say hi? :)

other places where you can find me online/on LJ >> Twitter | Last.fm | Tumblr | rateyourmusic | youtube | rockin_graphix [icon comm, shared with lasamy]

basics >> Hi! I'm Lavinia, I'm 23, I'm Italian, I'm a university student, I go to marches, I like Bruce Springsteen too much and I get easily obsessed. Also, I'm addicted to caffeine. That stated, I study philosophy, I read a lot, I'm a music geek and I like to write. Mostly slash fanfiction.

what's in this journal >> a mostly uneven balance of RL and fannish stuff, which mainly consists in Supernatural/Lost/A Song of Ice and Fire (mostly slash) fanfiction/talking at the moment. There's also a lot of bitching about my former government (though less than there used to be since it became former) and a lot of flailing about the stated fannish stuff.

music >> Bon Jovi, Bruce Springsteen, Doors, Led Zeppelin, Queen, Patti Smith, Warren Zevon, Steve Earle, Bob Dylan, Smashing Pumpkins, Stone Temple Pilots, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Neil Young, Guns n' Roses, John Frusciante, U2, Janis Joplin, Jeff Buckley, Johnny Cash, E-Street Band members, Keith Urban (shut up, I love him), Nirvana, Beatles, Tom Waits, Nick Cave, Wallflowers, Aerosmith, Pearl Jam, Pete Seeger. And Mozart (and opera in general).

movies >>Blade Runner, Casablanca, Last tango in Paris, A Perfect World, Mystic River,, Stagecoach, Rashomon, Kill Bill and Tarantino in general, Psycho, Some like it hot, The man who killed Liberty Valance, The Grapes of Wrath, Edward Scissorhands, Million Dollar Baby, Unforgiven, Thunderbolt & Lightfoot, The Godfather part II and II, I'm Not There, A Nightmare on Elm Street original flavor, Sabrina, Velvet Goldmine, Woody Allen stuff in general, The Pianist, 1997: Escape From New York, Merry Christmas Mr. Lawrence. Yes, I like classics, whacked sci-fi, noirs, westerns and Clint Eastwood. Also I'll watch anything Johnny Depp is in.

books >> 1984 (which would be my favorite ever), The Three Musketeers (and Dumas in general <3), Wuthering Heights, Maurice, The Grapes Of Wrath (and Steinbeck generally), anything by Stephen King especially The Dark Tower Series <3, Slaughterhouse Five, The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay, Lolita, anything by Nick Hornby especially High Fidelity, Alias Grace (and Margaret Atwood, generally, too), the Lord Of The Rings trilogy (though I read all the Tolkien basics), American Gods, Good Omens, Anne Frank's Diary, Sherlock Holmes stories, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, And Then There Were None, the A Song of Ice and Fire series. Usually I mostly like classics but if it's up my alley I'll read anything.

tv >> Lost, Supernatural (also, my current main fandoms), Deadwood, Pushing Daisies, Six Feet Under, Firefly, Game of Throne, The Wire, Chuck, The Vampire porn Diaries, Sirens, Friday Night Lights (though I'm not caught up on that); historical tv obsessions are Ally McBeal, the X-Files and Judging Amy. Yes, I like cheese and it had Adrian Pasdar. Regarding that, I used to like Heroes a lot. Then I quit it in S3. And I miss Adrian Pasdar's face. (TV related: if you hate either Boone from Lost or Castiel from SPN, you will probably hate me.)

people >> my crush #1 (because he was the first and for a whole bunch of other reason) is Jon Bon Jovi. My major current crush is Misha Collins. My historical TV crush is Ian Somerhalder. Other people I fangirl: Johnny Depp, Bruce Springsteen, Clint Eastwood, Harrison Ford, Uma Thurman, Duff McKagan, John Frusciante, Scott Weiland, Jeffrey Dean Morgan and Ewan McGregor. Oh, and Matt Bomer, thanks. And Richard Madden. If we also include dead people, you can add Humphrey Bogart, Marlon Brando, James Dean, James Stewart, Cary Grant and Henry Fonda.

what I ship >> [all fictional.] Lost: Jack/Boone, Boone/pretty much anything that breathes, Desmond/Sayid, Desmond/Penny, Jack/Sawyer, Jack/Juliet, Sawyer/Sayid. SPN: Dean/Castiel, Dean/Castiel/Sam, Sam/Dean, Sam/Castiel, Chuck/Becky, Ash/anyone really, Bobby/awesomeness, Balthazar/Castiel-Dean-Sam (one or more, I'm not picky). Deadwood: Jane/Joanie, Sol/Trixie. Chuck: Bryce/Chuck. Dark Tower series: Roland/Eddie (aka my #1 OTP ever I think). Firefly: Wash/Zoe. Six Feet Under: David/Keith, Nate/Brenda. Vampire porn Diaries: Damon/Alaric. LOTR: Faramir/Eowyn. FNL: Jason/Tim. ASOIAF: Jaime/Brienne, Sansa/Sandor, Robb/Theon, Jon/Sam.

other random shit that might be useful >> • I hate wank. With a vengeance. I'm all for discussing, but character bashing makes me unhappy and I don't do it, generally. I also am boring and don't do ship wars or fandom wars of any kind. I also tend not to take anything fandom-related too seriously for that reason. Hey, I like having fun.
• I can get very opinionated. Especially when talking politics.
• I squee. And flail. A lot. At least when it's fandom-related stuff I like and when it's a concert review.
• I like the Flying Spaghetti Monster a lot.

And this is kind of it. Hi again!
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the female ghost of tom joad: supernatural castiel 4.0janie_tangerine on June 30th, 2010 07:54 pm (UTC)
Hey, sure thing! :D I'm friending back and thank you. :)
sevvy23sevvy23 on July 3rd, 2010 10:11 pm (UTC)
hi there!!
Well, since i spend most of my time lately reading your dean/castiel fanfics, i figured the least i could do was add you as a friend...
Seriously? you're my new lj favourite writer :D
I would love to tell you what fic is my fav and everything, but the truth is i loved every one of them, and i have a hard time getting them outta my mind!!! I guess "unsuffer me" and "play it all night long had a special impact on me, but then again "with no direction home" was the first fic i read in this fandom, and i guess, the reason i became such an addict.
Anyway, i'm having a difficult time in real life, and... well i just wanted to thank you for helping me to keep my mind off all this.
By the way, i'm obsessed with the dark tower too, and so fucking in love with eddie dean... :D
keep writing coz you're awsome, lotta love
the female ghost of tom joad: dark tower eddie has the best quotesjanie_tangerine on July 4th, 2010 03:21 pm (UTC)
Eee, hi there! And seriously, wow. Thank you so very much? I'm seriously flattered here. I'm so glad you like my stuff this much, and of course friending is awesome! :D Also, you like Eddie Dean and the DT, I'm totally friending you back. There isn't enough Eddie love around. ;) Sorry to hear about RL, though. :( Again, thank you so very much! *blushes*
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the female ghost of tom joad: tangerinesjanie_tangerine on July 4th, 2010 03:22 pm (UTC)
Haaai there, thank you so much! :D And thank you so very much, and of course we can! *friends back* And thanks for leaving a comment, it's just that when people don't I never know if they want me to friend back or not and then I feel bad if I don't. ;) *adds back*
Kaelie Albrightbratri_v_zbrani on July 14th, 2010 01:33 am (UTC)

Just a heads up that I friended you.

You're f***ing awesome. Really, you deserve a lifetime supply of pie.
the female ghost of tom joad: tangerinesjanie_tangerine on July 14th, 2010 08:56 pm (UTC)
Haaaai and thanks! :D *friends back*

And ha, lol, you're too nice to me. But i could do with more pie in my life. ;)
srs bsnsibroketuesday on July 19th, 2010 01:06 am (UTC)
Dude! It seems I defriended you accidentally. I have no idea how the fuck that happened -- I wasn't even trying to defriend anyone recently -- but anyway, that's why you probably just got an email notification that I've added you as a friend. No, idek either.
the female ghost of tom joad: ILUjanie_tangerine on July 19th, 2010 01:14 am (UTC)
Lol yeah I actually saw that the other day and I was kinda baffled but then again I figured it was an accident, no worries. ;) <3
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the female ghost of tom joad: misha collins -> idk what he did but i ljanie_tangerine on August 7th, 2010 07:04 pm (UTC)
Ma salve! *aggiunge* E sì, direi che gli interessi in comune li abbiamo XDD è assolutamente ok!! <3333

(e mi pare che ti sia riuscito bene! :D )
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(no subject) - janie_tangerine on August 8th, 2010 01:07 pm (UTC) (Expand)
PKMN Trainer Kat wants to battle!infuturetense on October 4th, 2010 02:17 pm (UTC)
This is Kat (Tea_and_Opium) and I could have sworn we were friends on this account. ;; Anyway, can we be friends (again?)?
the female ghost of tom joadjanie_tangerine on October 4th, 2010 04:38 pm (UTC)
Aw, sure! :D and weren't we already, yeah..? O_o ah well. *friends*
;Miss Snow White: pic#105028131dahliaxxx on October 16th, 2010 09:33 pm (UTC)
* entra piano piano *
Ciao Lavinia <3
Sono arrivata al tuo journal perchè siamo entrambe nel team Heaven *O*
In più è sempre tanto amore conoscere una fan italiana di Spn ( e delle Alaric/Damon, ma shh, questo non l'ho detto ) che grafica cosi bene!
Ti dispiace se ti aggiungo?
the female ghost of tom joad: supernatural dean/cas third manjanie_tangerine on October 16th, 2010 09:41 pm (UTC)
Oddio, altra italiana? MA FANTASTICO XDD (e oddio, ti piace Damon/Alaric? MA ANCORA MEGLIO <333333333) e siamo anche tutte e due nel team Heaven? Mi pare che ci stanno tutte le condizioni minime ;) ;) ;) *aggiunge* non mi dispiace assolutamente, anzi! :DDD
(no subject) - dahliaxxx on October 16th, 2010 09:51 pm (UTC) (Expand)
I Believe In Castiel: SPN Dean Castiel Fadewhatsername_05 on October 17th, 2010 03:16 pm (UTC)
I am over on spnland and I see your graphics there a lot. I love them! I am team Heaven. Anyway I would love to add you if that is OK. :)
the female ghost of tom joad: supernatural dean/cas swan song #1janie_tangerine on October 17th, 2010 03:27 pm (UTC)
Hey there fellow teammate! ;) and of course it's okay. :D and thanks re the graphics. ;)
goldenusagigoldenusagi on October 23rd, 2010 12:23 am (UTC)
Hi! Want to be friends? I found you because I've read some of your Dean/Cas fic, and I'm always looking for new SPN friends! And I'm also slightly in love with The Vampire Diaries.
the female ghost of tom joad: the vampire porn damon/alaric phonejanie_tangerine on October 23rd, 2010 10:58 am (UTC)
Sure thing, yay! Dean/Cas and vampire diaries is totally good enough for me! ;)
Pine Needle Theory: yellowweirdwednesday on November 24th, 2010 01:51 pm (UTC)
Hey! I friended you because I like the stories you write and some of the shows you talk about are relevant to my interests.
the female ghost of tom joad: !!! <3janie_tangerine on November 24th, 2010 04:32 pm (UTC)
Hi there! :DDD *friends back* if we have common relevant shows.. ;) and thanks re the fiction. :D
Because it was you, because it was me...speak_me_fair on January 28th, 2011 04:04 pm (UTC)
Hi! I friended you with regard to your delicious writing and book interests -- I am just terrible at leaving comments, sorry about that!
the female ghost of tom joad: the three musketeersjanie_tangerine on February 10th, 2011 06:40 pm (UTC)
*is late answering* hi there! :D and thanks so much for friending! *adds back* Uhm, waaait, are you on the Musketeers community or am I wrong? Because I don't know many people who do that, fandom-wise, so having someone from there is kinda awesome. ;) if I'm wrong just ignore me. XD
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the female ghost of tom joad: !!! <3janie_tangerine on April 19th, 2011 09:21 am (UTC)
Ouuuuch I'm -so- sorry for reading this so late. I never got the notification for it because it was when LJ stopped sending them and I'm still missing all for the first week, so I just realized this was here when someone else commented now. And you like Lost/VD/SPN? Then I'm totally friending you back, sorry again for the month-long wait. *headdesks and kicks LJ* and thanks so very much! <3
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ratherastoryratherastory on April 15th, 2011 01:20 pm (UTC)

Hey, babe! Can't think why we weren't LJ friends before. :)
the female ghost of tom joad: psycho fanficjanie_tangerine on April 15th, 2011 02:03 pm (UTC)
Heeeey! :DDD *friends you* I don't even know that either! ;)
storm_rainstorm_rain on April 19th, 2011 01:07 am (UTC)
Hi! I see you worship Misha as well. :D I've also seen you around some Supernatural communities. We seem to have many other interests in common. Friends?
Btw, I love your icon. Mishalations! ^-^
the female ghost of tom joadjanie_tangerine on April 19th, 2011 09:19 am (UTC)
Hi there, sure thing! :DDD common interests and liking Misha = total win as far as I'm concerned. ;) and ha that icon is awesome, it's by captain_yavanna :)
verdande_miverdande_mi on April 23rd, 2011 07:52 pm (UTC)
Hello, I don’t think I have commented on your journal before, but I know I have read some of your stories and liked them (they’re quite happy in my delicious account, especially “Play it all night long” which can be found under my favourites tag). I’ve friended you to keep track on new stories and squee.
the female ghost of tom joad: tangerinesjanie_tangerine on April 24th, 2011 09:47 am (UTC)
Hey, I lurked a lot as well in my time. ;) Thanks so very much! :DD and I'll friend you back, I like mutual squeeing. :D
getting the chocolate in the peanut butter: spn:castiel:facedotfic on May 1st, 2011 04:20 am (UTC)
Hi, friending you, your D/C fics are delightful and I keep poking around your journal and it looks like a fun place to hang out.
the female ghost of tom joad: supernatural castiel profieljanie_tangerine on May 2nd, 2011 08:55 am (UTC)
Hi there! well thanks so much <3 *friends back* I hope you do have fun around here :)
The Hellcat Spangled Shalalala: Anaelgraecus_hist on July 2nd, 2011 09:52 am (UTC)
Since I spend most of my time lurking here on your journal and reading your Dean/Cas fics I haven't even been to your actual recent entries page that I missed this post! So, yes I am friending you now :D
I am ecstatic about the fact that you easily come as a multishipper but still manage to ship Dean/Cas the best! Because really, who doesn't love a little Wincestiel?
When I was going through your ships I cam across Bryce Larkin/Chuck Bartwoski and hell, how have I never thought of that?!
Um, so I guess here's dropping some love and saying thank you for being you :D
the female ghost of tom joad: supernatural + nick cave = otpjanie_tangerine on July 2nd, 2011 10:07 am (UTC)
But hi and welcome! :D

And thank you :) lol no problem re lurking on the D/C, actually I'm flattered. XD also well I like Dean/Cas better than most and it's what I'm interested in writing (mostly) but multi-shipping is awesome. It gives you chance to appreciate more things. ;) And mm, Dean/Sam/Cas, if only there was more of that.

Also Chuck/Bryce was awesome. It's still awesome. It's just too bad that they had to kill it. *sighs* and thanks again, really. <33
noah_beenoah_bee on July 7th, 2011 11:22 am (UTC)
Good day :4 I have been lurking around for a while thoroughly enjoying your Dean/Castiel fics so I thought I would come and say hello ^___________^ so I hope you don't mind the friending as I wish to stalk you further.
Have an excellent day :)
the female ghost of tom joad: supernatural + nick cave = otpjanie_tangerine on July 10th, 2011 09:05 pm (UTC)
Hi there! :D sorry for answering so late, I had finals. :/

That said sure thing, I'm so glad that you like my stuff! And HI again! I totally don't mind and feel free to stalk further. ;) and I'll stalk you back then! ;)
Bambie123: pic#98546087roseinlove12 on July 21st, 2011 02:11 pm (UTC)
Hey. I've been reading your fics for a while now, but I've never quite gotten around to reviewing-- because I suck like that, but I'm getting better! I completely adore your End-verse fics about Dean/Cas, they hurt so wonderfully.

It feels creepy to explain my reasons for friending you, so I'm gonna cut myself off here.
the female ghost of tom joad: !!! <3janie_tangerine on August 1st, 2011 06:13 pm (UTC)
Hi there!

First thing sorry for answering so late - you left the comment while I was in the midst of a RL drama and then LJ died and I never managed to get back at you. :( Anyway, thanks so very much and hey, you don't suck! I used to lurk a lot back then. ;) And it's totally not creepy, thanks for having friended! :) *friends back* and sorry again for answering ten days later.
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Maryemme86 on August 1st, 2011 06:06 pm (UTC)
Italiana XD oh bene. Non so se ti sovviene, sono la ragazza che ti ha fatto il wallpaper per il fanwork exchange, spero non ti dispiaccia se ti aggiungo alla mia f.list :)
the female ghost of tom joad: supernatural balthazarjanie_tangerine on August 1st, 2011 06:11 pm (UTC)
certo che non mi dispiace! :DDD (e lol, trovare altre italiane a random è sempre meraviglioso ;) ) *aggiunge*
abbylover23: Springsteen while we're at Mary's placeabbylover23 on August 16th, 2011 06:28 pm (UTC)
ok so i have totally written and re-written this like 3 times to make sure i sound non-creepy but alas it won't work. basically, your love of Springsteen, Cas, Jack, LOST, Supernatural, Boone and your writing makes me wish to be friends with you. if you felt like it.

did i mention that i worship at the temple of Springsteen? i feel like i should. again.
the female ghost of tom joad: bruce mary's placejanie_tangerine on August 17th, 2011 08:33 am (UTC)
If you worship at the temple of Springsteen you can't ever sound creepy for me. All right, THAT probably sounded creepy. ;) ;) Also hi, same icon. Also SPN/Lost/Boone/Cas/Jack? Other than Springsteen? I'm totally friending you back. ;) we can worship at Bruce's temple together! ;)
upupa_epops: [tvd] Caroline Forbesupupa_epops on September 6th, 2011 10:23 pm (UTC)
Hello :). Friending to follow your "we love the women that the fandom hates" entries. I'm so excited, I've been waiting for someone to claim a TVD character!
the female ghost of tom joad: the vampire porn carolinejanie_tangerine on September 6th, 2011 10:30 pm (UTC)
But hi! Wait, you claimed Caroline? I'm totally friending you back since I <333 Caroline. ;) and I had to claim poor Bonnie. She's awesome and all the hate she gets even with people I know isn't deserved. ;)
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morganlucas41: beach 3morganlucas41 on September 7th, 2011 10:56 pm (UTC)
Hi there! I decided to go ahead and friend you! Once again, your fic is awesome :)
the female ghost of tom joad: lost -> IT'S ON TUESDAY NAOjanie_tangerine on September 9th, 2011 10:14 am (UTC)
Sure thing, it's a pleasure! ;) *friends back*
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the female ghost of tom joad: LOL DEAN/DAMON FTWWWWjanie_tangerine on October 2nd, 2011 03:53 pm (UTC)
Hi there! :D

And ooh you watch the both of them? Awesome! I totally need more vampire porn people. ;) ;) ;) and heeee well I dubbed it like that when in S1 they released those promos with Damon and Stefan kissing Elena at the same time, but considering that everyone gets shirtless and they're all very pretty together I stuck with it. XD totally adding you back, thanks for leaving a comment here! :D

Spoilers are okay, really - I usually read them and become a spoilerophobe just in determinate cases, and I've been watching the episodes before going online since someone ended up spoiling me by totally breaking the spoiler rules in a community, so I'm cool with that. :)
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